I don’t welcome documenting or relating the following, (and it screws up the joy and positivity to be found elsewhere on the site) BUT … well … the following has to be expressed and said.
The biggest thing?
No. It’s not the cancer.
It’s not even the bodged NHS biopsy or the deadly DVT the surgeons caused me after ignoring my pleas for Klexane to address them removing my vital Warfarin blood thinning medication while having that wildly invasive surgery.
No. The biggest, most troubling thing I’ve been dealing with, (now into its fourth year), is the fact that my very own immediate Bridport family abandoned me immediately they found out I had inoperable prostate cancer.